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Re: women
Read this book when I was about 16, opened my eyes to the world.smoth wrote:The book is to win friends and influence people, it comes in audio book form.
Nightcold you are quick to jump on people about your perception that they lack/need better social skills. I have not met a single human who has mastered the art of the social arena. Norms vary widely from group to group. So people are extremes sure, you have several here who need well defined realities, others who are of the mind that reality is a playground. You are imperfect as are we all, try to reduce the level with which you leverage that insult because no matter how well meaning it will come off as an insult
Other than this, I've forced myself to talk to women just about everyday since I made this topic, and now its autopilot, fun and is getting kinda easy.
Re: women
i say i'am not quick enough :Dsmoth wrote:The book is to win friends and influence people, it comes in audio book form.
Nightcold you are quick to jump on people about your perception that they lack/need better social skills. I have not met a single human who has mastered the art of the social arena. Norms vary widely from group to group. So people are extremes sure, you have several here who need well defined realities, others who are of the mind that reality is a playground. You are imperfect as are we all, try to reduce the level with which you leverage that insult because no matter how well meaning it will come off as an insult
i will give u a hint, the fact that i bring it up so often(well the only other time was with you) could say more about me than other people
i have meet people who' s socail skills are remarkable....and some people who are a bit off....perfect has nothing to do with it
while you cant read people's mind to see what will offend them or not there are some general things that more or less effect most.....for example: people will like it when u remember their name, regardless of culture...shows intrest in them, and i think that is a universal trait in peeps to want to think that others are intrested in you(i think this goes double for women, but i'am far from an expert)....(i would go as far as to say that the need for recongtion is a irreducible factor of having a sense of identity)
edit: i have yet to meet a solipsist...
Re: women
There is no mind reading.. there are mirrorcells who give you the wrong impression, that everyone around you is a nightcold copy. If you meet animals, they have the same problem - they never realize they meet a human, the just socialize with very strange sheeps, horses, cows, dogs. For your dog - you are not a alien overlord- you are just a mysterious alpha dog. A mental dog, who wants to keep the group from drinking from the perfectly drinkable waterwell in the bathroom.
If you overcome those limitations of your mirror-neurons, you will see humanity for the first time. Its as alien, as a species can be. Do not abuse what you see. System Admins hate manipulating.
Also woman thread has 12 pages. Geekgeez. In that time, you could have gone to a coffeshop and met one. Now lets get this on the thirteens page.
If you overcome those limitations of your mirror-neurons, you will see humanity for the first time. Its as alien, as a species can be. Do not abuse what you see. System Admins hate manipulating.
Also woman thread has 12 pages. Geekgeez. In that time, you could have gone to a coffeshop and met one. Now lets get this on the thirteens page.
Re: women
some of you guys need to get out side and breathe some fresh air :/PicassoCT wrote:There is no mind reading.. there are mirrorcells who give you the wrong impression, that everyone around you is a nightcold copy. If you meet animals, they have the same problem - they never realize they meet a human, the just socialize with very strange sheeps, horses, cows, dogs. For your dog - you are not a alien overlord- you are just a mysterious alpha dog. A mental dog, who wants to keep the group from drinking from the perfectly drinkable waterwell in the bathroom.
If you overcome those limitations of your mirror-neurons, you will see humanity for the first time. Its as alien, as a species can be. Do not abuse what you see. System Admins hate manipulating.
Also woman thread has 12 pages. Geekgeez. In that time, you could have gone to a coffeshop and met one. Now lets get this on the thirteens page.
Re: women
I hate French culture, French books, and the language. My grandpa didn't trust them either. Took French immersion for 10 years, and I still resent the backwards ''education'', liberal ideology, and worst of all the pointless boring books and plays. Les Miserables just caps it off.
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But women love french culture!scrotum wrote:I hate French culture, French books, and the language. My grandpa didn't trust them either. Took French immersion for 10 years, and I still resent the backwards ''education'', liberal ideology, and worst of all the pointless boring books and plays. Les Miserables just caps it off.
Re: women
Well, enjoy searching for advice in the hollywood-culture, oh, wait, you already did that, turned you into a heap of muscle, searching for advice on a geek-board. Guess youre stuck in a loop of suffering. No, wait, thats again french culture, existenzialism.. really hard to keep it out, if you have any live at all, reality just keeps creepin in... - and you cant even escape it with hollywood. If its good, it usually is made (or just a remake) of french arthouse movies.
Read the plague and get your worries over. Its the realization that every body dies, even you, and that nothing, no humilation, no failure will last forever, thats quite self-assuring and relaxing in some way. If a arrogant angel turns you down, imagine that godess made from oceanfoam in a hundred years, and you can laugh over the worst of insults.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCYr8TWA ... playnext=0
Its not flawless, nothing is, but its neither pretending for humans to be.
Read the plague and get your worries over. Its the realization that every body dies, even you, and that nothing, no humilation, no failure will last forever, thats quite self-assuring and relaxing in some way. If a arrogant angel turns you down, imagine that godess made from oceanfoam in a hundred years, and you can laugh over the worst of insults.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCYr8TWA ... playnext=0
Its not flawless, nothing is, but its neither pretending for humans to be.
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not anymore. I don't regret the muscle, at all. I met 3 girls tonight at church, 1 or 2 that are prospective. its all good.PicassoCT wrote:Well, enjoy searching for advice in the hollywood-culture, oh, wait, you already did that, turned you into a heap of muscle, searching for advice on a geek-board. Guess youre stuck in a loop of suffering. No, wait, thats again french culture, existenzialism.. really hard to keep it out, if you have any live at all, reality just keeps creepin in... - and you cant even escape it with hollywood. If its good, it usually is made (or just a remake) of french arthouse movies.
Read the plague and get your worries over. Its the realization that every body dies, even you, and that nothing, no humilation, no failure will last forever, thats quite self-assuring and relaxing in some way. If a arrogant angel turns you down, imagine that godess made from oceanfoam in a hundred years, and you can laugh over the worst of insults.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCYr8TWA ... playnext=0
Its not flawless, nothing is, but its neither pretending for humans to be.
Re: women
... I'm no fool!"scrotum wrote:not anymore. I don't regret the muscle, at all. I met 3 girls tonight at church, 1 or 2 that are prospective. its all cool.PicassoCT wrote:Well, enjoy searching for advice in the hollywood-culture, oh, wait, you already did that, turned you into a heap of muscle, searching for advice on a geek-board. Guess youre stuck in a loop of suffering. No, wait, thats again french culture, existenzialism.. really hard to keep it out, if you have any live at all, reality just keeps creepin in... - and you cant even escape it with hollywood. If its good, it usually is made (or just a remake) of french arthouse movies.
Read the plague and get your worries over. Its the realization that every body dies, even you, and that nothing, no humilation, no failure will last forever, thats quite self-assuring and relaxing in some way. If a arrogant angel turns you down, imagine that godess made from oceanfoam in a hundred years, and you can laugh over the worst of insults.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCYr8TWA ... playnext=0
Its not flawless, nothing is, but its neither pretending for humans to be.
But then you wind up dropping out of high school
Now you're unemployed, all non-void
Walking 'round like you're Pretty Boy Floyd
Turned stickup kid, look what you've done did
Got sent up for a eight year bid
Now your manhood is took and you're a may tag
Spend the next two years as a undercover fag
Being used and abused to serve like hell
Till one day you was found hung dead in a cell
It was plain to see that your life was lost
You was cold and your body swung back and forth
But now your eyes sing the sad, sad song
Of how you lived so fast and died so young
Don't push me 'cause I'm close to the edge
I'm trying not to lose my head
It's like a jungle sometimes it makes me wonder how I keep from going under
It's like a jungle sometimes it makes me wonder how I keep from going under
Yo Mell, you see that girl there?
Yo, that sounded like Cowboy man
Cool
Yo, what's up Money?
Yo, where's Cooly an Raheim?
They is downstairs coooling out
So what's up for tonight y'all?
We could go down to Phoenix
We could go check out "Junebug" man
Hey yo, you know that girl Betty?
Yeah man
Come on, come all man
Not like it
That's what I heard man
What's this happening, what's this?
What's goin' on?
Freeze
Don't nobody move or nothin'
Y'all know what this is (What's happend?)
Get 'em up, get 'em up (What?)
Oh man, we're (Right in there) Grandmaster Flash and the Furious Five
What is that, a gang?
No
Shut up
I don't wanna hear your mouth
Shut up
Officer, officer, what is the problem?
You the problem
Hey, you ain't gotta push me man
Get in the car, get in the car
Get in the god...
I said, "Get in the car"
Why is he?
Re: women
First time i see Picasso angry ^^PicassoCT wrote:Well, enjoy searching for advice in the hollywood-culture, oh, wait, you already did that, turned you into a heap of muscle, searching for advice on a geek-board. Guess youre stuck in a loop of suffering. No, wait, thats again french culture, existenzialism.. really hard to keep it out, if you have any live at all, reality just keeps creepin in... - and you cant even escape it with hollywood. If its good, it usually is made (or just a remake) of french arthouse movies.
Read the plague and get your worries over. Its the realization that every body dies, even you, and that nothing, no humilation, no failure will last forever, thats quite self-assuring and relaxing in some way. If a arrogant angel turns you down, imagine that godess made from oceanfoam in a hundred years, and you can laugh over the worst of insults.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCYr8TWA ... playnext=0
Its not flawless, nothing is, but its neither pretending for humans to be.
Dont mess with french culture yo
Re: women
UMM!!
Cheesecan, you didn't listen!
scrotum explained it right at the start... its just that you don't understand religion!
religion is:
there is some big house with lots of young girls that want to have sex with you, if you really are desperate enough. you go there and pick them up. they get pregnant (usually the first time) and then you have to marry.. and for that you go to the big house again.
this also proves that atheists are created by the devil himself, and spit out from below the surface, to try to derail good humans. they can't reproduce them selfs, cause they would not come to that big house.
...ok, i admit that i neither had any idea of religion, before scrotum explained it here.. i had really strange ideas of it, but he knows the stuff, cause he's in there.
Cheesecan, you didn't listen!
scrotum explained it right at the start... its just that you don't understand religion!
religion is:
there is some big house with lots of young girls that want to have sex with you, if you really are desperate enough. you go there and pick them up. they get pregnant (usually the first time) and then you have to marry.. and for that you go to the big house again.
this also proves that atheists are created by the devil himself, and spit out from below the surface, to try to derail good humans. they can't reproduce them selfs, cause they would not come to that big house.
...ok, i admit that i neither had any idea of religion, before scrotum explained it here.. i had really strange ideas of it, but he knows the stuff, cause he's in there.
Re: women
Better version :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLye2FtO ... re=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLye2FtO ... re=related