holy shit there is a lot of hate towards bodybuilders here. I don't know if its because this is basically a site for nerds, but hopefully people would understand I am a nerd to decided to be part time bodybuilder 3 yrs ago and now am quite big, and do enjoy some benefits from that hard work
no, they aren't looking because I'm abnormal or something, they are looking because I have huge bis, pecs, lats, tris and the rest. And they don't see it unless you take your shirt off normally.
maybe if some of you hit the gym more you wouldn't hate as much... instead you get trolled
its true some of you guys get laid without any of this effort and duh, thats why I am asking for advice. and I got some useful stuff so far.
women
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lol deep denial. That's the best response eversmoth wrote:Everyone has a bit of narcissism just depends on how far you take it. To err is human.TradeMark wrote:i think all bodybuilders are narcissists more or less. or if they arent, they have some other mental issues. no sane person would waste his time building a muscle just for the looks of it.
I feel sad for this scrot guy as he is deep in denial. I am not trying to be mean I am trying to get through to him.
Re: women
i should mention that i'm one of the skinniest specimens here; i do labour work but i have a fast metabolism etc
however i offset the skeletor factor by being really, really goodlooking
seriously its about being comfortable in your own skin; if bodybuilding helps your confidence, then go for it; i just never personally found the need, and as far as i know being skinny never hurt any of my chances with girls
however i offset the skeletor factor by being really, really goodlooking
seriously its about being comfortable in your own skin; if bodybuilding helps your confidence, then go for it; i just never personally found the need, and as far as i know being skinny never hurt any of my chances with girls
Re: women
You mostly have old guys here who know the game and have given you advice. Thing about advice is that it can be ignored and the thing about being given something is that you can do what you want with it. I tried to lay some truth on you, you have every right to ignore it.
You can prance around act like an Internet tough guy, no one is really impressed or annoyed. You just come off as a stupid child talking up a man's game.
@ yan: I started because I was at an imbalance I feel a person need to balance mind, body and soul. I am working on strength for a while then I'll go back to cardio.
You can prance around act like an Internet tough guy, no one is really impressed or annoyed. You just come off as a stupid child talking up a man's game.
@ yan: I started because I was at an imbalance I feel a person need to balance mind, body and soul. I am working on strength for a while then I'll go back to cardio.
Re: women
I have no idea what you're talking about. Some people brought up valid points, as far as I can tell you are saying that girls look at me because I'm grotesque, not good lookingsmoth wrote:You mostly have old guys here who know the game and have given you advice. Thing about advice is that it can be ignored and the thing about being given something is that you can do what you want with it. I tried to lay some truth on you, you have every right to ignore it.
You can prance around act like an Internet tough guy, no one is really impressed or annoyed. You just come off as a stupid child talking up a man's game.
@ yan: I started because I was at an imbalance I feel a person need to balance mind, body and soul. I am working on strength for a while then I'll go back to cardio.
so if that's your point, move on
edit: upon further inspection of your post on page 8, my self esteem does need work, confidence wise, which is what I've been saying all along. But my solution to that isn't to curl up in a hole.
edit: you guys know there is a yahoo bot on your page?
Re: women
I didn' say grotesque, don't project so damn much. I had a personal trainer who would make you look small. What I am trying to say is that all the boasting and posturing makes you sound insecure. It is the opposite of confidence.
Just be natural, act like working out isn 't a thing(because it isn't) be smooth. To be smooth is to be relaxed and chilled about shit. NOT broadcasting what you are. If all you can talk about is working out that is also bad, seriously, go watch bliss and don juan demarco
ESP bliss, it may help you.
PS.I am no mocking you here.
Just be natural, act like working out isn 't a thing(because it isn't) be smooth. To be smooth is to be relaxed and chilled about shit. NOT broadcasting what you are. If all you can talk about is working out that is also bad, seriously, go watch bliss and don juan demarco
ESP bliss, it may help you.
PS.I am no mocking you here.
Re: women
Gains towards what? being a hunk of oversized meat? or gains towards becoming a male underwear model?scrotum wrote:started out as a desire to be physically fit, and then I got addicted to the progress. Especially when you are making gains every couple of weeks, its hard to say no.Gota wrote:I dont understand the point of being a boddybuilder...
Re: women
if you did it, you would understand how fun it is. My personality has grown into it over time. other people have lots of fun with it... classmates call me superpump 1000
y'guys need to see the difference between having fun with the alpha image and being an insecure douche. It can be a lot of fun. It's fun to act like a stupid ape if you do it in good humor
y'guys need to see the difference between having fun with the alpha image and being an insecure douche. It can be a lot of fun. It's fun to act like a stupid ape if you do it in good humor
Re: women
The three years you spended in a gym, i trained my Broca-areal and my Wernicke-center, now all the people look at me on the board. Not because they are disgusted, but in normal life you dont hear such lingual meltdown (Stripper get lots of girlz btw) and programers talking in formal languages are happy to see this art-catastrophy happening in another head far away. :D
Join the chickendales. Or a swingerclub. Or just join a girl site, just google for flowers and nice things, and follow the link, sooner or later, you can find them. Actually it is pretty hard to avoid contact with girls, beeing annoying and oversocializing as they are. Just stop struggling. Thats right, just stop counterproductive movements like the mouse moving hovering near the view-your-posts button.
STOP IT BODYBAGGER!
Join the chickendales. Or a swingerclub. Or just join a girl site, just google for flowers and nice things, and follow the link, sooner or later, you can find them. Actually it is pretty hard to avoid contact with girls, beeing annoying and oversocializing as they are. Just stop struggling. Thats right, just stop counterproductive movements like the mouse moving hovering near the view-your-posts button.
STOP IT BODYBAGGER!
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Re: women
bodybuilding is unlikely to have any effect on your ability to get laid (except be more or less attractive to different women) so I dont see what is has to do with the discussion.scrotum wrote:holy shit there is a lot of hate towards bodybuilders here. I don't know if its because this is basically a site for nerds, but hopefully people would understand I am a nerd to decided to be part time bodybuilder 3 yrs ago and now am quite big, and do enjoy some benefits from that hard work
no, they aren't looking because I'm abnormal or something, they are looking because I have huge bis, pecs, lats, tris and the rest. And they don't see it unless you take your shirt off normally.
maybe if some of you hit the gym more you wouldn't hate as much... instead you get trolled
its true some of you guys get laid without any of this effort and duh, thats why I am asking for advice. and I got some useful stuff so far.
Re: women
well i've been doing most of the things mentioned so far in this thread
like just saying hi and stuff
so I'm going to take a shot of vodka next time I go into this battle and then i will tell you how that goes. tends to make me more sociable.
other ppl were harassing me about bodybuilding
like just saying hi and stuff
so I'm going to take a shot of vodka next time I go into this battle and then i will tell you how that goes. tends to make me more sociable.
other ppl were harassing me about bodybuilding
Re: women
I have a metal problem too!Gota wrote:Big problem....later in flames albums suck arse...Sleksa wrote:Doctor doctor, i have a severe METAL problem!Gota wrote:do you guys tell people in real life that you have metal problems when you meet them?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esWqSqSTFa4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NH_05x-wHBg
Re: women
What smoth is trying to say is that the fact that you act super-defensive and lock up regarding their opinion when people challenge things you say is a sign of low self-confidence.
He's not trying to insult you. He's just a little bit (okay, a big bit) blunt.
...Awesome guy.
Interesting thing about him was that (IIRC) his big worry was that people wouldn't look past his muscles to his personality.
He's not trying to insult you. He's just a little bit (okay, a big bit) blunt.
Bingo!Neddie wrote:Are you talking about Snipa? Snipawolf?MidKnight wrote:Plus, it's possible to balance things out. I know a guy who can bench ridiculous amounts and does well on other fronts, too! Remember, smoth?
...Awesome guy.
Interesting thing about him was that (IIRC) his big worry was that people wouldn't look past his muscles to his personality.