Yeah. Screw that. All they do is put words in your mouth and over-analyze everything.
Im done with em.
(no offense to any females)
aka Rayden
Relations with women-folk: Are they worth it?
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Honestly... I'm married, and it's nice... but their is a lot I could throw away about the whole "up until college" part of womenfolk... make it known you just want to be friends... I'm sure females are worth dealing with, just don't try to fabricate a relationship when you're too young to do anything seriouse with it.
We are just friends. It seems to me like i had no problems before i had any female friends.
Order a pizza and hang out/play video games. That was what i did. Perfect social life.
But then i found myself with female friends and its hell. You say one wrong thing and the shit hits the fan.
Well, the shit has really hit the fan this time, i messed up pretty bad.
Order a pizza and hang out/play video games. That was what i did. Perfect social life.
But then i found myself with female friends and its hell. You say one wrong thing and the shit hits the fan.
Well, the shit has really hit the fan this time, i messed up pretty bad.
Avoid 'em like the plague until you get your life going nice and good, and are rather/very sufficient in supporting yourself. Chicks are nothing but drama no matter what angle you go at 'em at, so unless you're going to enjoy dealing with the never-ending drama that WILL come your way, I'd say you should just keep to yourself until you want that.
NEVER-ENDING DRAMA!
Don't say I didn't warn you.
NEVER-ENDING DRAMA!
Don't say I didn't warn you.
all joking aside... I think the right woman is good. However guys let's not pretend we are so great also. I am sick of the dudes who are just looking for a hole to stick it in. It makes all my chick friends feel bad."No matter how good looking, how sexy she is, somewhere there's a man that's tired of her bullshit."
Stay away from blondes. They might not necessarily be dumb normally, but a good majority get the idea that they can get by on their looks. They're usually right, but that doesn't mean they're not idiots who had to flirt their way through highschool equivalency because they were too busy giggling all through school.
Most women under the age of 20, and that's a bare minimum, aren't worth bothering with at all romantically IMO. Of course, it's the same deal for most guys, but we're talking about women in this thread.
Teenage relationships are all drama and bullshite. Until people mature and realize that there's bigger things in life than sex, money, and drugs (ok, lots of people never do), there's no sense in attempting a relationship.
How old are you anyway, Sheekel?
(PS: be careful what you say. I very nearly turned philisophical there. You'd never hear the end of it)
Most women under the age of 20, and that's a bare minimum, aren't worth bothering with at all romantically IMO. Of course, it's the same deal for most guys, but we're talking about women in this thread.
Teenage relationships are all drama and bullshite. Until people mature and realize that there's bigger things in life than sex, money, and drugs (ok, lots of people never do), there's no sense in attempting a relationship.
How old are you anyway, Sheekel?
(PS: be careful what you say. I very nearly turned philisophical there. You'd never hear the end of it)
My parents very rarely fight, and have never even come close to a divorce and they have been married for about...twenty odd years, and knew each other for ten or so years before that. So i asked my mom "How do you pursue relations with a girl?".
Then my mom looked at me and said "Very...carefully". My parents took their time, went slow and in general tried to keep it 'cool'. They got GOOD jobs, THEN got married THEN had kids THEN raised aforementioned kids.
Then my mom looked at me and said "Very...carefully". My parents took their time, went slow and in general tried to keep it 'cool'. They got GOOD jobs, THEN got married THEN had kids THEN raised aforementioned kids.
Am i the only one here who thinks that its more maturity, not age, that matters. I know two sixteen year old girls who are intellegent, funny, witty, and NICE, above all, have good decision makeing skills. And i'm sure that out there is a whiny, bitchy, attention whore who is well well above the age of 20.
Okay, since we're talking about it, here are the things I know about women, gleaned more from television and pop-psi then experience:
- Women will ask for help if they need it, otherwise they want you to listen to them and agree with them.
Examples:
Girl Say: I hate so-and so, she drives me crazy.
bad answer: maybe you should talk things out with her.
good answer: That crazy bitch.
- Picture your life, except 2 weeks out of every month your emotions are thrown out of wack by a chemical imbalance, you develope temporary bi-polar disorder, you have an unending migrane, and you start to pee blood uncontrollably.
- No matter what she sais, no matter what kind of relationship you have, no matter how allergic she is to pollen... she wants flowers.
- Women will ask for help if they need it, otherwise they want you to listen to them and agree with them.
Examples:
Girl Say: I hate so-and so, she drives me crazy.
bad answer: maybe you should talk things out with her.
good answer: That crazy bitch.
- Picture your life, except 2 weeks out of every month your emotions are thrown out of wack by a chemical imbalance, you develope temporary bi-polar disorder, you have an unending migrane, and you start to pee blood uncontrollably.
- No matter what she sais, no matter what kind of relationship you have, no matter how allergic she is to pollen... she wants flowers.
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