Nice guys do not get girls... [contains immature language]

[TradeMark]

yan is butthurt because he is forever alone man.

smoth, why do you repeat "lol he's lonely! ha!" shit to everyone you hate here? (not the first time i see you saying that), Is that the ultimate insult from you, because you were lonely once?

I think you just should be happy for what you have, and not insult others who werent as lucky as you.

[dizekat]

stuff

You didnt get me.
You were saying a girl that gives sex for flowers or dinner is cheap whore i was saying that most gals still rely on guy to support them to some extent thus are still whores just maybe not as cheap.
So either accept that that's how it is(mostly about interests and much less about touchy fluffy feelings when push comes to shove) or live a financially individual life.

no, I was saying that if you think some particular girl you're dating will give you sex for dinner or flowers, then you're thinking of her as a cheap whore, which she in all probability is not, and so you ain't gonna get sex.

as for men having larger average income (and thus usually contributing more to family budget) it doesn't make women into whores.

Though of course the individual perspectives depend to what kind of women one happens to know, in the family and friends.

[dizekat]

Also I have a really good argument to win the discussion with...

That's my girlfriend:

(it was damn cold and windy)
she's with family for Christmas now, skype screencap:


ahh, and a photo from the summer:


Also we met back when I had a lot less money than her. Also, she dumped a boyfriend for me, who had more money than me.

So, there you go. Basic's conjecture empirically disproved. QED.

[Wombat]

her ex didnt play spring, maybe thats why she dumped him !

[KaiserJ]

nice smile! does she have a younger sister who wears tube tops?

[Gota]

nice smile! does she have a younger sister who wears tube tops?

lol

[Wombat]

gota wanted to ask if she got younger brother

[Gota]

gota wanted to ask if she got younger brother

Yeah,for you.

[Licho]

My ex was really good at handling various low level issues, how to not die from hunger, how to fix car, how to attach new light etc while I dealt with much more important higher level issues like reading forums, troll wars, farming gold in wow. But she didn't really understand important things - why CA is so much better than BA, even called some latest killing contraptions cute

And now even long haired Saktoth is taken, I'm so lost..


Well one can always dream platonically ...

[Panda]

@dizekat You two look like a cute couple and I hope things go well for you.

yan is butthurt because he is forever alone man.

smoth, why do you repeat "lol he's lonely! ha!" shit to everyone you hate here? (not the first time i see you saying that), Is that the ultimate insult from you, because you were lonely once?

I think you just should be happy for what you have, and not insult others who werent as lucky as you.

Nah, he had taken a vow of celibacy before I met him even though women would throw themselves at him for his beliefs before he met me and all of the girls liked that about him. Sticking to one's beliefs when it comes to celibacy is considered to be admirable over here. I knew a few other guys who had done this as well. The women admired him for following his own beliefs even if they wished he had different beliefs. I met some of these women who were throwing themselves at him before and after we started dating too.

[fc14159]

When did anyone talk about smoth's celibacy?

[smoth]

because you were lonely once?

can't you even put together a halfway thought out barb. If I was lonely only once in my life I would be an amazing person. In fact introduce me to this once in a lifetime lonely person. I will punch him in the mouth and call him a liar.

Yan is essentially butthurt because he has either dated materialistic or money grubbing bitches. That or he has treated them like flowers = poon. If it is the argument of why does a guy make all the effort while a girl does nothing? that is stupid as well and he should stop dating lazy bitches.

There was a period about a year ago where I had cluster headaches and was blind for about a week and a half. Panda fed me and shuffled my ass to the shower. I was clean and fed, she didn't complain once about me constantly screaming or vomiting from the pain. Nor did she complain when she had to drive me to the hospital in the middle of hte night(which actually happend for near 2 months) for them to knock me out. You can meet a girl who will go through this with you then you refuse to help her out, you are a fucking lump.

If you are just looking to get mad because men are providers and women are caretakers, look at the fact that there are men who become stay at home dads while their women go work.

The world is a big place an just because yan had some kind of bad experience he goes into this sort of rage at women and how they all want him for his monies or something.

I don't know his post was fucking stupid and I have heard the same asinine line of bullshit from a whole range of lazy dudes.

[SwiftSpear]

Reign it in a little. Disagreement is one thing but it's getting uncivil.

[Gota]

There was a period about a year ago where I had cluster headaches and was blind for about a week and a half. Panda fed me and shuffled my ass to the shower.

I would probably have just taken you out of your misery :)

Also i wasnt going on a rant.
There is always a balance going on in a person's or in our case a woman's mind.
The pros and cons of staying with a man she is with or leaving him.
I'm saying that how much money/power/status that person has is, in many cases, a bigger concern for women than for a men and that in that sense you can also call such women whores.
What im saying is that there is no loyalty for the sake of loyalty.
We all constantly make descisions.Should i leave this person now?do i have someone better that i can hook up with?or since i dont i can keep seeing this one etc..
There is also a risk to leaving someone without being assured of a replacment, that is also a concern.
We in many cases can suffer someone just cause we, at that specifi moment, have nobody to repalce him with and do not want to break the habit of being with that person or do not want ot be alone etc..

[hoijui]

i knew a guy, which all the girls would have hated if he had devoted himself to celibacy.

there are people (girls and boys alike) that get turned on when treated "bad", which may be explained through a chain of (psychological) implications rooted in their grand-grand-father having served in war, or their grand-mother being beaten up as a child, or their parents having died in a car accident, ...
you may get the idea: the amount of such people has the potential to be huge.
only one of them is required to refute all arguments given in this thread so far, though.

what i want to say is: life/love/scoring chicks is not as simple and linear that it would be possible to give any general useful advice like you try to do here. you scored a few times? had 2 or 3 girlfriends? likely most of them with similar cultural background?

i guess you know at least one person very well. and knowing all this stuff about this person, lets you know what makes them feel and behave how and why. maybe you know 10 persons very well. do you think you know anything generally significant?
you think you can tell the world how humans work?
is this solvable by studying psychology?

[Gota]

Why would one devot himself to celibacy if he is not carrying some disease or is a religious zealot?

[Johannes]

How did all the girls hear about this celibacy vow?

[dizekat]

her ex didnt play spring, maybe thats why she dumped him !

he did but I used maphack to win (don't tell her).

[Gota]

Yeah thats how you solve things...you play a match of Spring...
Maybe real life armed ocnflicts should jsut be solved by playing spring.

[dizekat]

@dizekat You two look like a cute couple and I hope things go well for you.

Thanks! Same for you two.