Because they are insecure losers. It has nothing to do with chicks liking type As like myself. I am soo darn tired of people boo hooing about how they are a nice guy who did blah blah diddy blah for X chick. Someone made this rant a while back and I saved it. Since sky john did a video talking about how you have to be an asshole to get a girl I figured I wanted to make this thread and post the image in question of probably my fave rant against the so called "nice guy."
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As some person seems to have difficulty following the convo I am going to clarify what I am trying to discuss for others like him.
"nice guys" complain a lot about how they give these chicks the world and always get the shaft.
"nice guys" complain that the "asshole(s)" always get the girl(s).
I don't like that it still is the excuse and wanted to discuss it.
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correct and I am sick of people acting like they were nice when in reality they just act like bitches doing whatever a chick wants to please her. When in reality, chicks don't want that timid shit, they want a man.
This whole you need to be a caveman bullshit is pissing me off and the next person telling me this I will punch in the face and throw out the window.
Its not my fault that nature gave me superior genes and made me a killing machine.
Social darwinism rocks.
You don't have to walk up punch a chick in the face and tell her suck your dick. You just have to stop being a pussy.
people think thoughtless acts like roses or opening doors etc are impressive. no, they are just cliche' it isn't anything nice...
oh you complimented her? good for you!
these socially awkward things are cues that tell her when she finally does get around to letting you stick your quivering nervous rod in her she will have awkward sex.
Girls want a man whose hand will not shake when he shoves it in their crotch.
Again, the whole point is that you don't have to be an asshole to get the girl but what these so called assholes have that you don't is confidence.
Yes, only insecure losers make threads about that... ohh snap.
Anyways. being a douche doesn't get you girls, it's just that a lot of so called nice guys are only nice because they have problems getting girls and they think they would get a girl that way. They can be amazingly uncaring (douche level) and still think of themselves as 'very nice guys'.
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I do not want a woman, borderliner relationships are a nightmare, my psychosubspecies is only attracted to the same kind (we find other woman completely devoided of any fire) and it always leads to neverending drama, reunions, love & war, hatred, split. Everything else suffers, and if you think at all the things you could create, write, build and look at, this is to much of a sacrifice asked just for a little personal comfort. So whenever i hear the Kreutzersonata beeing played...
I went through the nice guy phase. For the record, I really don't blame the nice guys. When I was a kid, every single facet of society was telling you that's how to be. It's what women said you should be, what TV said you should be, what your family said you should be. Be agreeable, friendly and helpful... every single kid's TV show had a nice, friendly helpful dude winning the heart of his dream-girl.
It is not, however, attractive. That's where I think most "nice-guy" dudes missed the boat. Just like every guy talks about how they want a girl who shares our interests and laughs at our jokes, we say that after the implied "and she should be skinny and have big bazongas" part. However, in this case the "what we talk about wanting" and "what we find attractive" are directly opposite of each other.
*Everybody*, not just women, want you to be friendly and helpful... but friendly and helpful isn't sexy, confidence is. Friendly and helpful looks desperate and submissive, which is the opposite of sexy for a dude.
To me, the biggest betrayal I felt when I gave up on the "nice guy" concept was anger at the feminist movement. See, as a kid it always felt like I was being respectful and following the new "feminist" approach to romance instead of traditional exploitive mentalities. So to see the feminist movement rally behind the message that "nice guys are exploitive assholes just looking to get inside your panties through lies and subterfuge and are probably going to rape you" from them was kind of a stabbing in the gut.
Obviously in retrospect that was kind of a stupid attitude for me to have... feminists don't tell you to be obsessively respectful towards women because it'll help you get in her panties or because it's what women want. But of course, to a horny little adolescent guy, *everything* about women is about getting into her panties, so that part kind of went wooshing over my head. But I can totally see how so many "nice guys" turn into complete psycho anti-feminist misogynists when their worldview comes crashing down.
