His friend was drinking because he had given up and was stuck on the "pity-pot," feeling sorry for himself. His friend had a beer with him, told him to be happy about the kid and that the problems he is facing are part of life and no major deal. He was encouraging his friend to get up and get started again, telling him that it really isn't that bad and really is normal. The most important thing he could do was be "there" and reassure his friend that those things are normal.knorke wrote:And all the advice he gets is: sounds like liiiiiiiiiife to me. GREAT.
I that is supposed to show that there is always a way or whatever but it sounds like he is making fun of the misery of other people. Does this dude offer any help? No. He could say "hey, lets repair your truck, like the cool cigarette smoking cowboys we are" (it would still be a gay song) but he justs gets him a beer and then everything is ok. Wow, what an superficial asshole.
maybe it is a culture gap or some of the subtley/culture was lost. "Man up" is a normal expression in the south and means stop being a bitch and get your shit done. Maybe that concept does not cross cultures but here in the southern US the man is expected to be the family atlas and bear the weight of the family.
Also he didn't LOSE his job, he was having trouble finding work. As in his friend was probably unskilled or a "handy-man" type that does electrical or construction/farm work.