Unfortunately she prefers AOE3, but she quite likes Tiberium Wars..... you have a gf that plays RTS games with you???
She's not too keen on Spring actually, though if there's a balancing mechanism that might help. The issue with Spring is that it's intuitive like walking backwards holding a mirror in front of you is intuitive... I mean you can do it, but it takes a bit of practice, and I bet you walk into a load of lampposts first before you get the hang of it...
Even simple things like showing los by default. I mean, how do you explain to her that my units appear from nowhere? In AOE and so on, it is simple because that bit is totally black. ctrl-L works ok, but that means I have to tell her to hit ctrl-L at the start 'just because it will work better that way'.
Anyway, getting off topic I think :-DDDD