i'd rather give her a steady job & a local doctor and a school for her children.You Make some decent points slek but one comment about this last one... They will be educated, and that is worth a lot.
Also the % of literate people in third world countries is not that big so publishing books is not the best way to reach people.
For example in some parts of the africa most of the condom/aids information is in the form of pictures / strips because of the huge percentage of people who cant read