Nice guys do not get girls... [contains immature language]

[1v0ry_k1ng]

[Gota]

Damn your cool avatar.

[PicassoCT]

All this people, together, this must be a conspiracy. And im tired of shooping, what is wrong with you people? Isnt it enough that you harass us lonely nerds on the streets, no youve got to take it to the next level, you got to in your-face- us on the intertubes, showing family photos, basically baw-threads about yourshelfes, im gettin the rage.

Time for a -they-lifed-happily-ever-after-exorzism.
This Thread is now about bad habbits of people you lived together with (couple, flatshare, neighboors)

Singles dont have to clean toiletts were people pissed upon standing, or dumped bloody red tampoons.

Singles dont have to eat vegetarian, and survive the farts of the vegs in bed.

[Gota]

All this people, together, this must be a conspiracy. And im tired of shooping, what is wrong with you people? Isnt it enough that you harass us lonely nerds on the streets, no youve got to take it to the next level, you got to in your-face- us on the intertubes, showing family photos, basically baw-threads about yourshelfes, im gettin the rage.

Time for a -they-lifed-happily-ever-after-exorzism.
This Thread is now about bad habbits of people you lived together with (couple, flatshare, neighboors)

Singles dont have to clean toiletts were people pissed upon standing, or dumped bloody red tampoons.

Singles dont have to eat vegetarian, and survive the farts of the vegs in bed.

#1 this thread is now about break ups.
#2 When you live/lived/will live alone you wont/dont/didnt clean your toilet?

[PicassoCT]

You clean your toilett, only for yourself, which makes it alot easier.
Also snorring.

[dizekat]

Yea we conspired to harass nerds. It's very cruel and sadistic. It's not enough to have everything... we need to feed upon your pain, your loneliness. And there's no hiding from us. You thought you were safe on intertubes, but you're cornered. Not even gaming forums are safe any more.

[SinbadEV]

All this people, together, this must be a conspiracy. And im tired of shooping, what is wrong with you people? Isnt it enough that you harass us lonely nerds on the streets, no youve got to take it to the next level, you got to in your-face- us on the intertubes, showing family photos, basically baw-threads about yourshelfes, im gettin the rage.

Time for a -they-lifed-happily-ever-after-exorzism.
This Thread is now about bad habbits of people you lived together with (couple, flatshare, neighboors)

Singles dont have to clean toiletts were people pissed upon standing, or dumped bloody red tampoons.

Singles dont have to eat vegetarian, and survive the farts of the vegs in bed.

#1 this thread is now about break ups.
#2 When you live/lived/will live alone you wont/dont/didnt clean your toilet?

I didn't read most of this thread but I felt it was important to mention that my living-alone-single-vegetarian friend used to clean his toilet after every use.

[PicassoCT]

Everybody has to have a hobby - even this.

[TradeMark]

About toilets & bad relationships, I read this recently:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23595533/ns ... alth_care/

Fucking sick.

[smoth]

What im saying is that there is no loyalty for the sake of loyalty.

People are not penguins, we do not get some kind of need "to be with one another." We choose to.

We in many cases can suffer someone just cause we, at that specifi moment, have nobody to repalce him with and do not want to break the habit of being with that person or do not want ot be alone etc..

The fact that you look at someone as suffering them tells me you cannot love. Period. You cannot consider the other person beyond your OWN needs, you are entirely self serving. It is not unusual, there are people who simply REQUIRE direction or nudging, you are one of them. Your perspective on games is similar, unless the game has a required parameter you feel there is a lack of direction. Not saying I entirely understand you but that personality trait, the need for a clearly defined direction is one I have seen before. Just a personality I guess.

Why listen to a song, or watch a sunset? Some people need external reasons others do not. There are people in this world who will climb a mountain because they want to see the other side and people who will climb it because what they want is on the other side. You are the later I am the former we will not see eye to eye.

So I want to end this sub-discussion on this note: Just because you think something doesn't make it an absolute. That is kinda the point of this thread showing other perspectives on a viewpoint. I think it is nice that you have such a clearly defined perspective and there may be others including women who can get into an entirely pragmatic relationship. That is PERFECTLY OK but do not say that it is the only way to view the world.

[smoth]

Why would one devot himself to celibacy if he is not carrying some disease or is a religious zealot?

I vowed to not have sex because I felt it was necessary. I did not want to make a mistake and end up hurting my future or burdening others. I even broke up with a gf because heavy petting was not enough for her. It was not known, just that I never would have sex in HS.

[SinbadEV]

Why would one devot himself to celibacy if he is not carrying some disease or is a religious zealot?

I vowed to not have sex because I felt it was necessary. I did not want to make a mistake and end up hurting my future or burdening others. I even broke up with a gf because heavy petting was not enough for her. It was not known, just that I never would have sex in HS.

I am personally of the belief that sex outside of the context of consensual long-term monogamous relationship is harmful to the human psyche as well as damaging to a persons views of interpersonal relationships in general... In addition to the increased potential for long-term consequences like children and STDs outside of this context. Weather this means "waiting for the one", "waiting until after your married", "waiting till I graduate from HS/College/University" or "not putting out on the first date" I'll leave to the discretion of your particular belief system.

[smoth]

Correct, and I chose waiting until I was 18, I figured by then I would be of the mental capacity to at least have conquered my hormones and foolish teenage behavior. Which was true. I have been with panda since 1999, and yeah, I don't lament my decision.

[Johannes]

In what way does the psyche suffer from having casual sex? Can you direct me to a scientific reserach on the subject perhaps?

[DavetheBrave]

I am personally of the belief that sex outside of the context of consensual long-term monogamous relationship is harmful to the human psyche as well as damaging to a persons views of interpersonal relationships in general... In addition to the increased potential for long-term consequences like children and STDs outside of this context. Weather this means "waiting for the one", "waiting until after your married", "waiting till I graduate from HS/College/University" or "not putting out on the first date" I'll leave to the discretion of your particular belief system.

personally of the belief

Sorry to butt in, but personally, I am not of the belief that having a personal belief requires scientific research.

[smoth]

AMAZING, DAVE CAN READ! IF ONLY MORE PEOPLE HAD YOUR SUPER POWERS! Besides extremely handsome, what else have you not told me about!?!??!

[Panda]

Correct, and I chose waiting until I was 18, I figured by then I would be of the mental capacity to at least have conquered my hormones and foolish teenage behavior. Which was true. I have been with panda since 1999, and yeah, I don't lament my decision.

I think that it is great to wait until you're older to have sex. A lot of younger people simply aren't ready physically or mentally for that. Maybe they don't want to be worrying about things related to sex like pregnancy.

[dizekat]

AMAZING, DAVE CAN READ! IF ONLY MORE PEOPLE HAD YOUR SUPER POWERS! Besides extremely handsome, what else have you not told me about!?!??!

he's also brave, I heard.

]nice one as far as trolling nerds goes... telling about swearing to celibacy... so all the nerds think, well but he wasnt getting laid till late or something... then kaboom it was only till 18 and there was heavy petting before then. then i have a chance to add a sentiment like, yea early sex is bad for you, i wish i swore to celibacy till 18.
In all seriousness though idk sex was never really such a huge deal for me. Something that 2 reasonable adults should be able to talk about straightforwardly and comfortably. Because of this attitude, i in fact was not getting laid much because it is just not so easy to find reasonable people (unless you go to singles bars n shit) and additionally it is hard to get the nerve to be the one yourself plus there is no good reason to have casual sex, not for me anyway, which makes it hard to be any reasonable about it. And i don't want to deal with unreasonable people or do stupid stuff myself.
But all in all any such issues are solvable by just meeting more people, you'll just meet someone you are very comfortable with and who's very comfortable with you and it'll all be natural and good, and IMO that is the best way to go.

[smoth]

I passed up on some sweet ass in highschool bro, it wasn't as easy as you make it out to be.

[dizekat]

I passed up on some sweet ass in highschool bro, it wasn't as easy as you make it out to be.

i passed up on 3 uni student girls in a single day. i was repairing some electronics stuff at dorm for money and they took the liberty of informing me that dorm security is bs and any outsider can spend a night there, and then while i was working they real nearby had a talk making sure that i hear that neither of them gotten laid this year, and how they're totally gonna find some guys coz its annoying etc. lol. and they're not bad looking. i bicycled entire previous day and most of that day and didnt shower and felt real gross and they didn't have private showers (real crappy dorm). I should of said "i have a volume discount, N $$ for all, and believe me, you all will be very satisfied" in a male-slutty voice and gave business card, this would of have been really funny, they'd remember it for rest of their lives and who knows maybe would of followed through on the offer. but unfortunately the best responses you come up with after you leave.