Would you have done the same thing if you were in the winning team? Not really. Saying otherwise I think it's hypocrisy.
We are playing games for one reason, to see it winning, not for seeing it being shut down when we are close.
End of story.
I really would stop a game if it was desperate com-searching. Especially if I didnt have the units needed to search and kill the coms and teammates not even bothering to search them. That is waste of time in my opinion. But you can think whatever you want about it.
You seem to play the games from different reasons than I, and many others, do. I find the actual microing units and doing tactical decisions much more rewarding than just killing abandoned buildings.
And about this Zai.. he said "suck a dick Esorp", and I asked if I should kick him too. He said "do it", so I did. That's my argument for kicking him from the 2nd game. Zai wasn't playing that game, he joined as spectator after a few seconds ingame.
MrAnderson was another guy kicked from the 2nd game. He spammed "JOIN SPADS4" with caps lock 6 times and did !stop vote twice. I warned him not to do it, and after second !stop command I ended the vote and kicked him from also disturbing our game. No one was really going to vote these stops.
EDIT. Btw I quite didnt get this sentence: "LOL are you know blaming it on another people?" What did you mean with it?