1st/ of all,
I'm in right to refuse promotion in all my autohosts, I don't do that any elsewhere, so why will we/I receive this ? (for info, just after an ended game, that [ll]COOLJAMES just played) :
[Sun Oct 23 10:50:55 2011] <[ll]COOLJAMES> jiz
[Sun Oct 23 10:50:58 2011] <[ll]COOLJAMES> x host
[Sun Oct 23 10:51:01 2011] <[ll]COOLJAMES>

[Sun Oct 23 10:51:03 2011] === [ll]JBIEBER left ===
[Sun Oct 23 10:51:04 2011] === [ll]COOLJAMES left ===
And 10 min later, without any previous succes and a previous ban, his team friend did it at his turn :
[Sun Oct 23 11:00:52 2011] === [ll]JBIEBER joined ===
[...]
[Sun Oct 23 11:01:06 2011] <[ll]JBIEBER> JOIN TABULA U NOOBS ON X HOST JOIN NOW
[Sun Oct 23 11:01:08 2011] === [ll]JBIEBER left ===
Still no succes, and impossible to come back again for [ll]COOLJAMES and [ll]JBIEBER, [ll]JBIEBER decided to flood 20 min later, #main channel :
[11:21] ** [Prof]FuNtastiC joined the channel.
[11:22] <[ll]JBIEBER> join [x]TheHost people!
[11:22] <[ll]JBIEBER> join [x]TheHost people!
[11:22] ** Server ** [ll]JBIEBER was muted for spamming.
[11:23] ** Springie3 joined the channel.
So, as far as I'm concerned, I waited "@ home" often long days, alone, for some coming player.
The only promotion (not sure 'bout players could see it well) I've tried few times with the inclued and well set !promote command in #newbies, #french, #fr, #[BoB] and #[ACE].
Also rare, by private msg for some players waiting in a current running battle (they don't spec running game, they just wait in autohost lobby).
I NEVER did, ans will NEVER DO some promotion in #main, neither on any autohost.
Yes I know, I'm a rough man.
I have experienced this, and all players left, and only 3 I remember, stayed, never again.
So now, if for some reason, players don't feel good because they can't promote in my autohosts, can't SHOUT, can't insult, can't blame, and so on, all such comportments that don't build an healthy atmosphere, no pb : They could be free to see if the grass is more greener on any other host (so much choice !!) , I don't force them to stay.
And, the icing on the cake, to finnish with that, with players in a such state before the above-mentioned :
[Sun Oct 23 10:12:29 2011] <[ll]JBIEBER> watching rugby
[Sun Oct 23 10:12:37 2011] <[ll]COOLJAMES>

[Sun Oct 23 10:12:42 2011] <[ll]JBIEBER> and im fucking drunk
I will not remake the world, but it's not because we are on Internet network that I (and all current players here) gonna suffer by such behavior.
A word to salvation.
To stay in the current topic with this nice off-one, stupid promotion as previously quoted is not a rule of common sense.
It just permit to bring 90% of players on any other autohost, for feeling better "@ home" by spammers, not for splitting numbers of players neither specs.
This is NOT the way to, and not prone to the current topic.
@
Carpenter, I have no lessons to give you, but before throwing a topic, make sure to check what they give you with the various parts involved, before making a decision, I do not know if you deliberately hidden part to protect someone or if you just didn't get all the dialog.
Carpenter wrote:but Fabrice basically told him to fuck off and eventually banned JiZaH. What for?
You're totally false : «Fuck Off» is
NOT the english for «Ferme ta gueule».
«Ferme ta gueule» = «Shut up»
Here is the complete conversation :
### Session Start at [2011-10-23 11:04]
[11:04] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Bonne attente, et merci pour la promotion. Tu remercieras ├®galement to copain de team.
[11:04] <[ll]JBIEBER> ah ça va Fabrice, tu vas pas en faire tout un foin
[11:05] <[ll]JBIEBER> c'est de bonne guerre ya rien de mechant
[11:05] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Je m'en fiche, ce n'est pas respectueux, tu n'as pas à faire ça.
[11:05] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Non, je ne tolère pas, point, ça ne se discutte pas.
[11:05] <[ll]JBIEBER> et tout le monde sait que les gros host sont plein a chaque fois
[11:05] <[ll]JBIEBER> lol
[11:05] <[ll]JBIEBER> alors va te faire voir
[11:05] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> toi aussi et t'es pas prêt de me revoir.
### Session Closed at [2011-10-23 11:06]
### Session Start at [2011-10-23 11:06]
[11:06] <[ll]JBIEBER> j'ai pas envie de te revoir
[11:06] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Ferme ta gueule alors et arr├¬te de m'envoyer des messages priv├®s :)
[11:06] <[ll]JBIEBER> c'est bien gamin tas le dernier mot bravo
[11:07] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Bon, visiblement tu ne comprends pas, je te mute des messages priv├®s, je ne les verrai plus. PS : c toi qui a commenc├® avec "alors va te faire voir" Alors, regardes-toi dans un mirroir avant d'aller juger les autres o_O
[11:08] <[ll]JBIEBER> [11:06:42 AM] <[ll]JBIEBER> c'est bien gamin tas le dernier mot bravo
Translating / Traduction :
[11:05] <[ll]JBIEBER> alors va te faire voir =
So go fuck off
[11:05] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> toi aussi et t'es pas prêt de me revoir =
You too you'll not see me.
[11:06] <[ll]JBIEBER> j'ai pas envie de te revoir =
I don't want to see you back
[11:06] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Ferme ta gueule alors et arr├¬te de m'envoyer des messages priv├®s :) =
Shut up and stop sending me private messages :)
[11:06] <[ll]JBIEBER> c'est bien gamin tas le dernier mot bravo =
Good kid, you have the last word
[11:07] <[ACE]FabriceFABS> Bon, visiblement tu ne comprends pas, je te mute des messages priv├®s, je ne les verrai plus. PS : c toi qui a commenc├® avec "alors va te faire voir" Alors, regardes-toi dans un mirroir avant d'aller juger les autres o_O =
So, seems that you don't understand, I mute private messages, I won't see them anymore. PS : It's you that started with "So go fuck off" So, look yourself in a mirror before criticizing others o_O
[11:08] <[ll]JBIEBER> [11:06:42 AM] <[ll]JBIEBER> c'est bien gamin tas le dernier mot bravo =
Good kid, you have the last word
And with all of this, is it ME that told him to get f**ked ?
If I was so stupid as I seem, I do not even take a second to p*ss me off to reply to this topic.

And what makes me even more shit, is that it's people who are in their right which must be justified, it's the world upside down !
Is it very healthy to go talking a dispute to someone else ?
If a player think received something bad from me, I'm always opened for duscussion if the goal is contructive.
I question myself, but here, no, the conversation did not bring something interesting.
It sometimes happened to go again (like I did today) I have banned people, and often, after discussion, withdrew the ban is because I find discussion constructive, I thought maybe I went too far, or even that the player has gone too far on aggression placed on another team, or I received an apology...etc.
Now, I'm bored to wash one's dirty linen.
I don't hassle anyone anywhere, I gently wait "@ home", then, no one has to p*ss me off, that's all.