Spring RTS Engine

Hi,I dont know why but now when I play a mod with my friend I see: conecting to server and it close at 45 sec,same to my friend when we play 1vs1.chek my info log...

when hosting check the "use relayhost" option

are you in a lan?
because in the infolog it says "Connecting to local server" so i think he is running his own server.exe instead of using the official internet server.
if you want to fix it, it is because of router ports. you have to forward the port spring uses, by default 8520 i think.
using hamachi to create a virtual lan works too if you want to play over internet without using the lobbyserver for some reason.

but easiest is to login into the internetlobby and [x] use relayhost as Satirik said.

I dont know but I found the solution,My anti-virus was blocking the other to come in my game.Comodo is my anti-virus. thx for trying to help help...